Who am I?
My name is Jacqui Rock and I have been consulting on secondary school appeals since my son was unfortunately allocated a school that we didn’t feel was the right fit for him when he was 10 in 2007.
It was an arduous time, as we knew that it would be a big mistake for him if we did nothing and so, I took it upon myself to find a way to do something about it and thus, “Get Your School” was born. Well, its inception anyway! I am probably running away with myself, as I also remember feeling lost, helpless and not knowing where to turn.
Whilst I found that the secondary schools that were on my initial application were sympathetic, they were also not able to support my predicament, as they had their full allocation for the upcoming term and so were focused on that and their current school cohort. It was so frustrating!
After the initial shock I slowly found my feet and through lots of trial and error, found a path. Whilst I did not know whether this path would be successful as I went through the process, I did know that doing something distracted me from mine and my son’s despair and gave us hope.
To cut a very long story short, my school appeal was successful (twice) and my son got the school he wanted. What a relief..!
And there I thought my secondary school appeals focus would end, but no….
Slowly but surely, other parents came out of the woodwork from far and wide and through word of mouth, and asked if I could help them too. I knew already that my school appeal wasn’t a fluke, as two separate schools had successfully accepted my argument to give my son a place at their schools.
Why I created this service
Having gone through the desperation of that day when we first heard that my son hadn’t got the school he wanted was so unsettling for him and us. It seemed that all his friends and cohort had been successful and so were planning their next steps into the secondary school system, with my son becoming more isolated as he waited to find out what would be happening to him and if he was destined to go to a school where none of his friends would be going – Yes, we’ve been there too!
After our success, realising that there is a way to win and helping a few others do the same too, led me to thinking that if I had also found a consultant to guide me through the process when I most needed it, it would have made things so much easier and avoided giving me the blind hope that I experienced when I went through it all by myself.
My Experience
Whilst there is never a guarantee of success, over the years I have honed my skills and learnt additional techniques and strategies to benefit the parents that have reached out to me. One thing for sure is that when I had to go through another school appeal with my daughter 3 years later, I ensured that I started my appeal right at the start of the process in preparing for the secondary school open day visits. Which is why I also start these subscriptions here too.
I hold my hands up to say that we put our heads in the sand with my son and hoped that he’d be successful with our selection and this led to his initial school allocation which he didn’t want. Does this sound familiar..? How wrong were we, and I wasn’t about to make that same mistake again. I was the only mother walking round my daughter’s school open days with a notepad and pen, and I have found that whilst a secondary school appeal can still be won after your school allocation results have been given to you, there is a lot to be learnt during the initial stages that you can’t go back to obtain when you are already at ‘school appeal’ stage. Starting at the beginning also gives you the right posture for facing this head on and being prepared!
My situation turned into a positive one. Both my children chose to continue into their respective 6th forms , went on to graduate at their universities with distinctions and one is now a fully qualified Chartered Accountant with the other a Project Manager. I honestly believe that things would have been different now if we hadn’t ensured that they got the secondary schools that were right for them.
Whilst there are no guarantees of success, if you now find yourself in a similar position to me, then we are here to help.
I have found that whilst a secondary school appeal can still be won after your school allocation results have been given to you, there is a lot to be learnt during the initial stages that you can’t go back to obtain when you are already at ‘school appeal’ stage. Starting at the beginning also gives you the right posture for facing this head on and being prepared!